Saturday, December 11, 2010

THE SEARCH FOR A PRACTICAL GUIDE


THE SEARCH FOR A PRACTICAL GUIDE
If you are looking for advice, there is plenty available. The self-help business is one of the world’s fastest-growing enterprises. In places as diverse as Britain, Latin America, Japan, and United States books on self-improvement are best sellers. Videos, seminars and TV programs dealing with self-help are also gaining in popularity. Their appeal lies in the notion that you can tackle your problems yourself, without having to consult a psychologist, a marriage counselor, or minister. What fields do these guide cover?
Personal fulfillment, satisfaction in love and the raising of children are among most popular themes. Coping with depression, grief, and the effects of a divorce are other common subject. Also in big demand is advice on combating overeating, smoking, and   heavy drinking. Is the counsel practical? Sometimes it is, but often it is not. Thus, it is wise to consider the bible’s caution :”Anyone inexperienced puts faith in every word , but the shrewd one considers his steps ….read this for more information(proverb14:15)

Thursday, December 9, 2010

LONELINESS In a world of Mass Connection


                     
      LONELINESS                          In a world of Mass Connection
Cell phone calls, text messages, e-mails, online social network, chat rooms. There has never been a time when the means of communication was so numerous and easy to come by. Yet in this world of mass connection many people young and old feel very lonely.
Why…………….?
  In the book loneliness-HUMAN NATURE AND NEED FOR SOCIAL CONNECTION, researchers John T. Cacioppo and William Patrick thoroughly address the subject of loneliness.
They refers to a study that increased internet use can increase social isolation as well as depression when it replaces more tangible forms of human contact.
The hectic pace of life imposed by modern society is hardly conducted to warm human contact. A smile and the affection that can be conveyed over the phone or through a message on a computer screen.
   The above can be true in this workplace but even more so within the family members come and go without sharing meals or conversation. Adolescent children have their own computers and live visually isolated from the rest of the family. Ironically in spite of their electronic communication gadgets many youngsters feel lonely.
These days, even the bonds of marriage can be threatened by feelings of loneliness. Lack of communication between marriage partners can bring about a situation in which to the land parelled lives. Moving in this that seldom meet. A feeling of being above distressing forms loneliness . Single parent in particular may have to contend with feelings of loneliness. The world can cut off companionship with their children causing feeling of loneliness to increase.        
    


Sunday, December 5, 2010

BEWARE OF THIS,THEY ARE SCAMMERS FROM SENEGALS.IGNOR IT

Hello Dearest  ,Red heartRed rose
How are you  today?together with your health hope fine.Mine, well i thank God for keeping me till this moment here in Dakar Senegal.My name is Favour Jammeh 23 years single from Ivory Coast in West Africa and presently i am residing in the refugee camp here in dakar as a result of the civil war going on in my country. My late father Dr David Jammeh  was the personal advicer to the former head of state (Late Dr Robert Guei) before the rebels attacked our house one early morning and killed my mother and my father  with the only brother i have. It was only me  that is alive now and i managed to make my  way to a near by country Senegal where we are leaving now.I would like to know more about you. Your likes and dislikes,your hobbies and what you are doing presently.I will tell you more about myself in my next mail.Atterched here is my picture' Hoping to hear from you soonest
your
Favour .